Do you feel like you are going insane over someone who you absolutely cannot get out of your head or heart, but the relationship isn’t working…yet? It is very possible that you have met your Twin Flame.
Twin flames are a very controversial topic. There are many people who don’t believe in them, think it’s just an obsession, or think it’s a toxic, co-dependent narcissistic relationship. There are many people who analyze twin flame relationships according to psychology or society templates and standards. I’m here to tell you that, quite frankly, those people don’t know shit.
(Hi, I’m Jessica! I am going to be real, and be myself, and sometimes I curse. I’m sorry if I offend you. I hope that you will continue reading anyway, but it’s important to me to be me. I promise you, it’s worth it.)
As I was saying, anyone who is a twin flame knows that anyone who’s not a twin flame absolutely CANNOT understand the relationship. You can’t get advice from them. You can’t listen to their opinion on the concept. They don’t know what they’re talking about because they haven’t experienced it. I’m going to be frank with you. Someone who hasn’t tried so hard to walk away from a connection, for years even sometimes, and still constantly thinks about the person…first thought in the morning and last thought at night…and has even found themselves thinking about suicide because they don’t understand why this connection is so unbreakable that it won’t allow them to move on with their life…someone who hasn’t experienced that absolutely cannot understand what a twin flame relationship is like. In fact, anyone who hasn’t experienced that probably just read my last sentence and thinks that I am desperately in need of help or have mental health problems. But anyone who has experienced it, is likely screaming at the computer right now, “Yes! Yes! Yes! I knew I wasn’t crazy!!” No, hon, you’re not crazy.
Haters Beware! 👀
Just to address the expected criticisms of my statement: Yes, I really did try to move on. I dated. I joined more than one dating app. I did everything in my power to leave him in the past, for 2 years. Do you expect me to be able to control my thoughts? Or control my heart? I don’t ask for thoughts of him to constantly be there. I don’t ask for signs reminding me of him everywhere I look. It just happens! As for the heart, anyone who’s met their soulmate knows that you don’t choose who you love, and you truly cannot live without that person, a soulmate that is.
Well, this is a perfect opportunity to explain twin flames. Yes, they are soulmates, except you both are in need of healing inner wounds that don’t allow you to be in a healthy relationship, among other things, and the twin flame journey is also a deeply spiritual awakening process. So I’m going to stop the haters right there and tell you that if you’re not spiritually enlightened, you’re not going to get it. Even if you’re new to spirituality when you meet your twin, the journey will school you. I’m also going to add for the awakened ones, yes I know that is not the exact definition of twin flames. Really, there is more than one definition that I will get to as I go, but my blog is for the purpose of helping the average person or the beginner in this crazy journey, to understand from their perspective. So I’m not always going to use the same explanations as are being circulated everywhere else.
At this point, I can’t really explain further in one post. These are discussions that take time. That’s why I’m here! That’s why I made this blog! I want to discuss these things with you…all the intricate details, to help you understand each aspect and angle. I also want to sift through all the different information you find on the internet and social media, because it’s not all right.
Disclaimer
Now here’s where I give you my disclaimer: I can’t tell you that I 100% know everything there is to know about twin flames. Yeah, I am claiming to be a bit of an expert, but how would I even know if I’m totally right? Twin flames are a pretty new concept. I really don’t think people heard that term before the last decade or two. No one exists who can tell you they are an expert who absolutely is 100% correct about everything they are saying. I have even heard “experts” say, “I thought I knew but I was wrong about this.” Not only is the concept pretty new, but what we know about twin flame journeys is constantly evolving. I believe that is because of the deeper spiritual connections with twin flames, and the correlation to ascension, but that is a topic I’m not going to get into yet. One step at a time. Point being, NOBODY IS A DEFINITIVE EXPERT ON ALL THINGS TWIN FLAME.
That being said, there is a lot of information that I see that I strongly disagree with. Though I’m willing to consider that for some people it may be true to them. But I don’t agree that it’s true across the board. These things are what prompted me to start speaking up and guiding people on Instagram. (Click the link in the upper right corner to follow me!) My knowledge gained has been from not just my own twin flame journey and spiritual awakening, but also from my friends’ journeys and from observing talk and patterns in communities and on collective readings.
“Oh no! Not that! 😉“
I also have been a tarot and oracle card reader for awhile, so I naturally ended up starting collective twin flame readings and offering them to clients as well. So I also see the patterns and consistencies amongst the communities firsthand. I bring this up to explain how I’ve learned all I have. But I also can’t help thinking of a statement I read in an article explaining twin flames that said something close to ‘experts of course conveniently offer readings.’ I found this statement so derogatory towards our community, and it really showed me that the author doesn’t have a clue about us. Just as I explained how deeply connected the twin flame journey is to spirituality and spiritual awakenings, it should be pretty obvious that of course the “experts” are pretty knowledgeable on those topics and many use divination tools and connect to Spirit with spiritual gifts. When that is the case, they usually offer readings, not because they’re trying to take advantage, but because they actually know what they’re talking about and how to help. In fact, any spiritual advisers offering twin flame readings are more than likely also twin flames themselves. And as we have established, if you’re not a twin flame, you can’t understand it.
So…can we all just agree to be open-minded and not post accusations against spiritual healers who are just trying to help others? You can find scammers in any industry. Use your own good judgment to know who is authentic and who isn’t. Also, anyone who says something like that, probably doesn’t get it…fair warning.
Well I’ve digressed because I was irritated with that ignorant statement. Let me get back on track.
Why am I here?
I can’t really explain it to you other than to say that I’ve felt guided to speak up, and help who I can, clarify information that I come across that I feel there is at least a different perspective on, and be a leader in this community. I personally do feel that is Spirit guiding me to help you, just like Spirit guides me during my readings. Again, many people will think that sounds crazy. But I know from my readings that my gifts are real. I don’t really need to prove it to anyone. Though I am required to post a disclaimer that psychic readings are for entertainment only. 😉 Though I hate that word and won’t use it regularly because of the negative connotation attached to it. People don’t understand how real spiritual gifts work. In any case, with every reading I am always blown away by how Spirit communicates through me, and the feedback from my clients, who frequently become regular clients and even friends, validates all of that. So if Spirit is speaking through me to help clients during readings, then I believe Spirit is also speaking through me to give you good information about this crazy ass journey. I hope that I can help as many people as possible.
So if you’ve kept reading this far, thank you for staying. I’m going to post as often as I can, and share as much knowledge as possible to help you figure out how to survive this journey that really is soulmates on steroids. But I can promise you that you’ll get through it, you’ll be better on the other side, and it’ll all be worth it. And I don’t make that promise lightly. I can also promise you that you will feel like you’re going through hell sometimes, your own personal hell. But I read a quote by Nietzsche once that said basically, reworded for modern times, in order to reach your personal heaven, you have to go through your own personal hell. So focus on that personal heaven you will be rewarded with on the other side.
I promise I will also dive much deeper into these topics with each post. I didn’t really get to this time. But I’m trying to not post full research papers every time, HAHA! In the meantime, if you would like to subscribe to my newsletter for regular post updates and other helpful information and freebies, fill out the form on the side of the page. You’ll automatically get a pdf guide on How to Stay Balanced to Maintain your Inner Peace with an Aura Cleansing Essential Oil Blend Recipe as well. I will also be diving into other spirituality topics plus narcissism recovery. So stay tuned for more in each of those areas. I look forward to becoming a community with you and so excited to welcome you here!
Much Love,
Jessica
Oh P.S! I do want to get my blog updated with my previous Instagram content quickly. That was part of the reason I made this, so we can all easily find posts! But if you have specific questions you want me to talk about, let me know in the comments or Contact Me. I will be sure to cover your questions as soon as I can!
[…] One more thing I want to address here, and it’s important as a warning to my twin flame community, is that as amazing and blown away you can be by true connected psychic medium intuitives, if they are not twin flames, they cannot understand the twin flame journey. That very important statement still applies!! […]