Today we are going to talk a walk through my previous Instagram posts about the different ways to navigate the twin flame journey, and the significant role of unconditional love in the journey. Afterall, the purpose of the journey is learning how to embody unconditional love, but this is also what heals and inspires the Divine Masculine to find his way. The Divine Feminine is the forerunner and leader on the journey. It is our job and duty to rise above the 3D, focus on the higher spiritual perspective, and heal ourselves so we can embrace unconditional love and strength for our twins, to help them find their way home to themselves and to us.
Also, please note that these posts had multiple Instagram videos as well providing additional information. So you may want to go to my IGTV section and look up those videos for deeper insight.
7. Multiple Paths to Union
Update: The purpose of this post was to emphasize that no two twin flame journeys are exactly alike. You cannot compare your journey to someone else, and for many, you can’t listen to what other people are telling you to do, or are doing wrong. This post actually came out of a pet peeve from hearing people say, you have to do this, you have to do that. But they were inserting their opinions based on their own experiences. However, the circumstances were completely different! For one Twin who is dealing with a third party marriage and kids, you cannot compare with another Twin who has no third party at all! That’s just one example of situations that are different.
But there’s another element to this. There are also personality differences that need to be accounted for. So even with two nearly identical situations, core characteristics are going to make a huge difference in what lessons need to be learned. You can have one DF who is very openminded and focused on doing the inner work compared with a DF who is closedminded and in resistance to the necessary work. They are going to have completely different lessons and healing processes to work through! This is just another reason that you can’t compare journeys and you should really resist giving advice based on your own experiences alone. There are core tenants to go by, but please remember that we each have our own path.
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Another important reminder…there are Multiple Paths to Union. Everyone’s situation is different. Some people go through the healing transformation separately and then come into union; some come together as a couple and do the healing work together; some have third party situations and children; and some don’t! There are all variety of circumstances for twin flame relationships, and how and when you come into union is specific to yours.
You may encounter some people telling you this is what you have to do to achieve Union. But no one knows any of that for certain. They know what they experienced, but they don’t know your situation, and they certainly don’t know what Spirit is doing for you or what Spirit’s Divine Timing and perfect circumstances are. What leads one couple into union may not work for another! Where one couple has many details to sort out with third parties and kids, another has the luxury of instantly moving in together. So don’t allow others to make you feel like you’re not on track or you have to be doing what they did in order to achieve Union. You follow your own intuition and spirit guidance and trust your path.
Another quick note: The need to “let go” to help Union come in does not mean that you have to give up on your twin flame or stop thinking about them even. It simply means you stop worrying about when and how it’ll happen and just let things unfold naturally. You get into 5D energy and stay out of 3D energy. That’s all.
8. Unconditional Love Anchors Both Twins Differently
Update: I don’t have a lot to add here. Though I will say that the understanding of unconditional love on this journey is not just a huge part of the purpose, it’s the main point! The twin flame journey is many things, including a spiritual rebirth and awakening. But twin flames are assisting humanity with ascension by learning, embodying and teaching unconditional love. Twin Flame Union and holding that unconditional love for your twin, is what raises the vibration of Earth through ascension.
This is why Union is guaranteed. Twin flames are not just here for the spiritual awakening. They certainly aren’t just here to go through hell for no reason because of massive amounts of soul growth in a short span of time, with no reward. Twin flame souls agreed to go through all of this, as painful and difficult as it is, to assist with ascension, and Union is the reward. It’s also the carrot dangled in front of us to keep us moving through it all. But it’s the reward for persevering, and that’s why it’s guaranteed. Even when it seems impossible, just trust Spirit and believe in miracles, because they’re coming!
Believe it! Trust it!
Going back to unconditional love, learning to embody that for our Twin while they are in the wounded and runner stage is the hard part. Coming to understand why they behave in the ways they do, and being able to understand everything from the higher spiritual perspective, is the key to this. I discuss this at length in two previous blog posts. Please refer back to them for now. I will discuss this more in the future.
Twins are not Narcissists…Unconditional Love Needed
Real True Love is Nothing like We’re Taught
These two blogs will also elaborate more on discussion points from my original post, such as how the dynamic is unfair to the Divine Feminine, yet necessary. Because, I’m just going to be honest here…women are the stronger sex. 😉
Original Post:
A HUGE part of the purpose of all twin flame relationships is to teach not just yourselves but the world about true unconditional love. That is part of the Divine mission for all twins. How you learn that unconditional love is different for each side. The more awakened twin, the Divine Feminine (regardless of your actual gender), experiences this by continually forgiving the runner twin for their bad behavior while they are unhealed and displaying negative characteristics and defense mechanisms causing them to run and hurt their DFs. They are not toxic, but simply wounded and damaged inside. They are still in need of healing, and they are going through a dark night of the soul. The DFs understand unconditional love because their love for their DMs endured through all this and they can’t help but forgive them and never give up on the connection.
The Runner Twins, Divine Masculines, learn unconditional love by repeatedly being forgiven and seeing that their Beloveds will not give up on them, will not walk away, and they truly are worthy & deserving of this love.
Some may say it’s unfair to the Divine Feminine to have to go through this. But your job is to anchor the healing energy and love for your twin and show them the path. It’s not easy, but you can do it and the payoff is worth it. And together you show the world what true unconditional love means.
9. Divine Feminine, You Are His Strength!!
Update: Not a lot to add here! Except understand that the Divine Feminine is the lighthouse and beacon for the Divine Masculine to find his way home…first to himself, then to her. A large portion of the Divine Masculines are healing self worth wounds and attachment disorders. They don’t feel worthy of the Divine Feminines. They are fighting their own inner demons, and there really are literally many times also actual demons tormenting them. 50% of Twin Flames battle spiritual warfare as well.
The Divine Feminines are the leaders, the more awake of the pair, the healers and the strength. It is their duty to hold the foundation and pave the way, for the Divine Masculines to heal and discover their soul paths, which also bring them home to their Queens. All roads lead to your Twin Flame. Both sides come to understand this. The DFs lead the journey and hold the energetic foundation, and the DMs set the pace, but the finish line is the same no matter what. Through the love and faith of the DF, the DM finds his true soul strength.
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Are you up to the task? I posted the other day about how the DF’s and unconditional love are the anchor for the connection and for the DM’s. But something hit me today and prompted me to post this as well. YOU ARE HIS STRENGTH!! Your energetic fields are combined. This is partially why you have a telepathic connection too. Your energy and power combined are way more than normal people. You can feel each other’s energy. Your faith in them and your strength gives them the power and strength they need to get through their dark night of the soul, to persevere and to conquer their demons, both inner and perhaps even literal sometimes 🤷♀️😅. So go within, maintain your balance and your strength to be the anchor your DM needs!!
I wanna add, many DMs may not like this dynamic, only because they were raised with the masculine templates to be the strong one. But this is partially how those templates are broken down and retaught to them. And they learn that it’s ok for your DF to be your rock and your strength.